Being a bridesmaid is an absolute honor, and a ton of fun!
While you’re likely aware of some of the benefits of being a bridesmaid, there may be a few that will surprise you.
We’ve listed all the cool perks associated with being a bridesmaid here. Giving you a sneak peek into what’s ahead, so you can feel pumped about the whole bridesmaid experience.
1. You get to be there for your bestie
Okay, an obvious benefit.
However, never underestimate the power of being there to support someone. You probably vividly remember when people—probably even the bride—were there for you, and now you get to shine standing up there with her on her special day.
How cool to be chosen to participate in such a meaningful occasion.
2. You get a gorgeous new dress
Thank goodness you’re a bridesmaid during an era where bridesmaid dresses are pretty enough to want to wear!
Modern bridesmaid dresses are stylish yet comfortable, just check out Bella Bridesmaids and see for yourself. With all sorts of gorgeous silhouettes, fabrics, and colors, we’re pretty sure you’ll look for an excuse to wear your bridesmaids dress again and again.
3. You get to help plan and partake in parties
Who doesn’t enjoy a good party?
As a bridesmaid, you get to assist in planning and participating in more than one get together.
From the bridal shower to the bachelorette party, pre-wedding events have all the ingredients required to have a blast. There’s good company, tasty food, a flute of bubbly or two—sometimes even games—all in all it’s a whole lot of fun.
4. You have an excuse for some much-needed R&R
Many people tend to put off their vacations, and most people never go on holiday with their friends. If the bachelorette party is out of town—maybe you decide to rent a sprawling cabin on the shores of a crystal alpine lake, or head into your nearest city to have some fun, you get to experience both.
Getting time off from work to indulge in things like popping a cork before noon or slipping under the crisp sheets of a massage chair at the spa are likely just what you need. Now, you have the perfect excuse to kick back and indulge.
5. You get to bond over new exciting memories
We’re willing to bet that you and the bride have an arsenal of memories you laugh hysterically over from time to time, perhaps a nod to a wilder past during your college years.
Chances are, it’s time for some new memories. And as a bridesmaid, you’re in a prime position to make it happen. Just think of all the new experiences you’ll have throughout the process of wedding planning and celebrating.
6. You get to connect with other people
If you don’t already know the other bridesmaids, now’s a great time to forge a deeper connection to your close friends’ other close friends.
Maybe you’ve heard a ton about each other, and now you finally get to meet.
Connecting with new people and making new friends is important, and something that’s increasingly harder to achieve as an adult. And hey, you already have one thing in common—the bride!
7. You get to show off your creative side
There are ample opportunities to lend your creative skills during the wedding planning process.
Maybe you’re obsessed with scavenger hunts—why not pour your creativity into coming up with a scavenger hunt for the Bachelorette party?
If you have an eye for design, the bride may love your feedback on how to style the reception.
For those who delight in DIY and crafts, lend your skills to help decorate the tablescape, or create darling one-of-a-kind favors for wedding guests.
8. You get to experience something new
As human beings, we all love new experiences—even if it means pulling ourselves out of our comfort zone.
If this is your first time being a bridesmaid, then this is all a new experience. If you’ve been one before, this experience will likely be vastly different from the last time you were a bridesmaid.
Meeting new people and trying new things is part of what makes life exciting and fun! Now is your chance—the perfect excuse—to mix it up and experience something new.
9. You get to be part of something incredible
A wedding is a beautiful celebration. There’s nothing more profound than uniting over true love surrounded by close friends and loved ones.
As a bridesmaid, you’re essentially a VIP. You get to participate in the prelude, the ceremony, and are standing there as a testament to how important you are to the bride: Your love and support mean so much, that the bride wants you there with her during one of the biggest, most significant moments of her life.
No matter how you look at it, that’s pretty cool.
Conclusion:
There you have it! Being a bridesmaid is a heck of a good time, and the grand finale is you beside your bestie, wearing a gorgeous new dress.